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Introduction Introduction
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My Friends: Reality and Methodology My Friends: Reality and Methodology
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Feeling for Our Friends: Love, Concern, and Affection Feeling for Our Friends: Love, Concern, and Affection
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People We Know: Knowledge and Intimacy People We Know: Knowledge and Intimacy
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Sharing Our Lives and Experiences Sharing Our Lives and Experiences
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Friendship, History, and Analysis Friendship, History, and Analysis
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Friendship and Self-Interest Friendship and Self-Interest
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The Ending of Friendships The Ending of Friendships
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Friendships Counter to One’s Interests Friendships Counter to One’s Interests
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Nonreciprocal Friendships Nonreciprocal Friendships
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Friendship and Betrayal Friendship and Betrayal
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5 The Nature and Value of Friendship
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Published:May 2024
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Abstract
This chapter presents an account of friendship built around two real-life cases of the author’s close friendships. The essentially historical nature of friendship is emphasized by showing how the other paradigmatic features of friendship—concern and affection, special knowledge, and a desire to share lives—depend upon and are a function of the past interactions of the friends. After a discussion of ways of thinking about friendship that ought to be avoided because they move a philosophical account beyond ordinary experience, the chapter concludes with a discussion of the ending of friendship. Even the very best of close friendships may be terminated, and examining the endings and exitings from friendships can tell us a great deal about the role of friendship in our lives: seeing what we lose and what we cause others to lose when a friendship is terminated reveals what friendship adds to our lives.
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